My girlfriend and I have been on and off for years because of her depression

DEAR DEIDRE: I GOT a text from my girlfriend saying it was over – that she needs time to sort herself out.

She suffers from anxiety and depression. It’s been a difficult few years for her, ever since her ex cheated on her and lied to her.

She’s broken up with me many times, always suddenly, but somehow we’ve always got back together.

I’m 40 and she’s 39. I thought this time would be different, with so much to look forward to as restrictions lifted.

She’s been acting hot and cold over the past few weeks but just before she finished with me we spent a nice afternoon together.

I truly love her. I am so confused and hurt.

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DEIDRE SAYS: I can understand your confusion. She is unpredictable but at least you know why.

She must have been very hurt by her ex. Tell her it is difficult for you not knowing where you stand or whether it is worth hanging on.

Give it a month and see if she seems more relaxed and consistent with you. If you are still feeling up in the air, the break might be best for you in the long term.

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