I’m a 26-year-old lesbian but finding myself attracted to a guy at work

DEAR DEIDRE:  I’M a 26-year-old gay woman but finding myself attracted to a guy at work. 

I’ve just come out of a long-term relationship with a woman of 30. I found it really tough. I was withdrawn, gained weight and began to question who I was.


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The male colleague is 31 and has always been there for me. We’ve been having socially distanced walks and he messages me every day. He’s awkward and unusual in his mannerisms. It’s hard to read the signs but he’s like a magnet to me.

DEIDRE SAYS: A lot of people are neither straight nor gay but somewhere in between. If you’d like to develop things with this man, what is stopping you?

You don’t have to express your undying love for him, but tell him you value his friendship and, when lockdown is over, you can explore whether you have something worth holding on to. Good luck.

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